Monday, July 20, 2009

Intuition -- Survival Signals

Intuition: direct perception of truth, fact, independent of any reasoning process; or immediate apprehension, a keen quick insight.

In our western society intuition has many times gotten a bad rap. Talked about in a negative way mainly referring to "women's intuition" as a mystical or ridiculous thing that had no logic. In eastern culture intuition is and has been respected for centuries. Animals have intuition and understand it can save their lives, therefore they don't question it.

One of the reasons western society has had a difficult time with the notion of intuition is because it is hard to explain or reason out, and we have seen throughout history that when a society or group does not understand something they usually make fun of it or criticize it.

People have many other names for intuition:
  • A gut feeling
  • Angel on my shoulder
  • sixth sense
  • Hunch
  • God/Spirit
  • The hair on the back of my neck stands up
  • Goose bumps
  • Erie feeling
  • Lump in my throat
  • Inner voice

There are many ways to describe it and names for it but the bottom line is that Intuition or I think a better name Survival Signals only have one purpose or goal and that is to protect you! They have NO ulterior motive. So Listen to them!

  • If someone makes you feel uncomfortable -GET AWAY FROM THEM
  • If you feel you should not walk into a place--DON'T
  • If you feel you should get out of a place--GET OUT

Our subconscious minds pick up thousands of small cues all the time and communicate them to us in ways of feelings. We may not now or ever understand exactly why we should get out or stay away from this person, and that is OK. Just trust your intuition or survival signals!

I often tell this story when I teach self-defense seminars because many people don't relate intuition or the need for safety to big strong guys but everyone should listen to intuition or survival signals!

A friend of my family is a construction foreman. Big strong guy, hard worker, drives a big truck, friendly, the type of guy you think NO ONE would mess with and can take care of himself.

He was on his way to work one morning and his usual routine was to stop at a convenience store fill up his BIG GULP type mug with soda to last most of the day. He pulled into a convenience store parking lot, grabbed his empty mug and jumped out of his truck. He said then he got a funny feeling not to go into the store, but he thought that is ridiculous and went in anyway. He got 2 steps inside and was hit over the head and knocked unconscious. He was in a coma for 3 weeks and we did not know if he would ever come out. Thankfully he did and lived to tell everyone to listen to that inner voice. There was a robbery underway when he stepped in and a guy with a ball bat was watching the door and waiting for guys like him.

He and I talked about this event after his recovery. He knows that I have spent my life teaching protection. He said he dismissed the inner voice or feeling because he thought who or what could hurt me. Well we can all be hurt, even people who have trained a lifetime.

The best self-protection tool we have is our intuition or survival signals! They are a God given gift! Allow them to do their jobs. They only want the best for you.

LISTEN, LISTEN, LISTEN

Thursday, July 2, 2009

Safety in Social Networking

There are dangers in the virtual world of social networking we should all be aware of. As adults we should be aware that in chat rooms, instant messaging and networking sites most people are just there to get socialize or network, but there are people with bad intentions in cyber space as well.

Understand that someone can say they are anyone from far away behind a computer. They can post a picture from anywhere. If you are not running a business that you are advertising for on the sites you are social networking then protect your profiles by checking that you want to approve anyone who looks at your information first. This way you make sure you know them and not just everyone has access to you information. You can protect you information on FaceBook, MySpace, and Twitter.

A person can be totally violated in the virtual world of today and it is just as important to understand how to protect yourself and your family in the virtual world as it is in the physical world.

As far as you kids go the most important thing is to talk with them openly about the dangers. Things seems safe from the safety of your home behind your computer or from the safety of a place you frequent, this is part of what makes self-defense in the virtual world so difficult.
One very important tip is to keep the computer your children use in a visible place.

Our world is changing fast, we have to be fluid and constantly learning and growing with it.

here are some websites with more info on this subject;
www.OnGuardOnline.gov for social networking safety tips for parents and youth
OnGuard Online
Source: www.OnGuardOnline.gov
www.Thefatherlife.com